Do you ever wish that your child be a perfect child just like you? I mean in the behavioral aspect? Some (or maybe most) parents are like that, which is not a bad thing. They encourage the kids to be like the things they used to like when they were kids. They teach kids ways or hobbies that they used to when they were still young. And if the child can show a behavior that is not like them, they scold the child. Parents like this forgot that the child is a combination of two genes – the mom and the dad. The mom did not realized that her kid is just half of her. So the kid can never be a replica of what she is. Maybe in looks, they can be so much alike but in ways, they can never be. Even twins, they can never be alike in all things but of course they love each other so much.
I love parents who love their kids in spite of their differences especially when kids make goals in life. I admire parents who encourage their kids to pursue whatever their kids wish to be when they grow up. I can just imagine what some adults feel when they are living a life that is a choice of their parents which they can't take. Of course, I wish everyone the best!
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No Two Individuals Are Alike
14 comments:
I have a "mini me" personality wise and I think it's harder to bond with that child. I'm a lot head strong so it's hard having two of those in the family!
It's so important to embrace every child's differences, that is what makes them unique.
Yes every individual is different. We have our own choices and success and failure depends on how we execute our choices. Our kids will grow not exactly like us but somehow there's something in them that is similar to our own.
I always tell my kids to be themselves. They have some things that are like me and some that are like dad, but luckily they get being stubborn and doing what they want from both parents.
yes, enjoy the differences
My parents always allowed me to be me - for which I am thankfully if they saw I enjoyed something they allowed me to do it - even if it did cause some giggles (neither of my parents can really 'swim' where as I always loved it and could never get my head around not being able to do it as a child) x
When my teenie bopper was a little girl, everyone called her "Little Janeane." I always told her don't be Little Janeane, be big Euphoria. I have stuck with that and I think she is better for it.
you are right, we are created in a unique way even twins aren't alike, they might look similar but their characteristics and genes has disimilarity.
Me and my son has similarities but my daughter is an opposite of me.
It's always an important role for a parent to be an active supporter of their children. Bond is always a priority so the kids will learn how to make their choices.
i think every child is unique and original which makes them so awesome
I love my kids the way that they are. They are kind of a challenge sometimes but it is part of the package. I try to mold them into good respectful kids, which they are.
No ones perfect, and I love my family just the way the are. Unique and all!
We live in a perfectly imperfect world! I love that everyone is uniquely different! Would be quite boring if we were all the same cookie cutter people!
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